Depression is a common experience for many at some point in life (though for some it can be a chronic ongoing experience). It could be argued that most people are aware of the feelings and experiences (the DSM-V would call these symptoms) of depression. Briefly, depression symptoms can include: feeling down, or hopeless; loss of interest in previously pleasurable activities; changes in appetite; trouble with sleep (sleeping too little or too much); loss or lack of energy; feeling worthless, hopeless, or guilty; difficulty focusing or concentrating; and thoughts of being better off gone or contemplating suicide. One in six people will experience depression in life. Depression also effects about one in fifteen adults in every year.
One of the biggest challenges with depression is its power to impact a person’s life, actions, and direction in life. The focus of a person’s life becomes highly influenced toward ineffective ways of trying to control feelings of depression. Such ineffective methods can include: sleeping a lot or most of the time; avoiding social interaction or engagements; avoiding any type of pleasurable or purposeful activity; or even the use of alcohol or substances. Most of these types of actions are aimed at finding relief. Not surprisingly, this relief can and does usually work. However, it typically only works in the short-term and can be at the expense of long-term purpose, values, and hoped-for life direction. For example, a college student who is moderately depressed may feel relief by avoiding class and sleeping most of the day. However, these types of actions can be at the expense of their long-term goal (perhaps costing them in becoming a physician) and at the expense of their values of helping other people. In another example, an elder adult experiences mild to moderate depression because of the loss of their life-long spouse. Because of the depression, they begin to consistently avoid social interaction with their adult children. As a result, this action comes at the cost of engaging with their grandchildren which they value very highly and sense a great amount of purpose in being an actively engaged grandparent. Sadly, though they may feel relief in avoiding other people, avoiding such an interaction tends only to increase the depression in the long-term. An approach that has been highly effective in helping people break the cycle of depression is called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (or ACT, pronounced like the word act). The ACT approach is highly evidenced-based with over 1,000 randomized control trials being completed. The aim of ACT is to help a person reflect on and potentially identify ineffective ways they have tried to control their depression, as well as what values, purpose, and hoped-for life directions it has cost them. However, highlighting these ineffective strategies is done in a hopeful manner which allows a person to notice their experience of internal pain, let go of needlessly struggling with it (and trying to control the experience of the internal pain), and take action toward personal values, purpose, and life direction that has meaning and importance. Moreover, the ACT approach allows space for a person to notice their internal experiences and (even with the experience) to be able to take steps toward what matters to them and their values. As Robyn Walser, PhD (one of the pioneers of ACT) says, it is beginning to live life from the feet up, instead of the head down. Overall, feelings of depression can create many “rules” for a person. It is not unusual for a person to feel that simply because they experience depression they must adhere to what depression tells them to do. This is called mindless rule following. For the young college student, the rule was to stay at home in bed. For the elder adult, it was to avoid social interaction. An ACT approach to depression can begin to allow space to notice the crucial difference between what these painful feelings tell a person to do and what a person’s values direct them to do. Finally, the ultimate goal of noticing these differences is to give a person the empowerment of choice to take purposeful actions (no matter how small) toward what is most meaningful in life to their personal values. If you are interested in ACT therapy, you are welcome to contact me or search for other ACT therapists using this link. Other resources and self-help books about ACT include: The Happiness Trap Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life by Steven Hayes, PhD (co-creator of ACT) References: All Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas, skills, and theories on this blog are fully credited to it's pioneers and creators: Steven Hayes, PhD; Kirk D. Strosahl, PhD; Kelly G. Wilson, PhD; Robyn Waler, PhD.
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One of the biggest barriers and challenges for people to receive treatment and care for mental health struggles is the common societal stigma that is strongly associated with such services and needs. If a person simply speaks out the words “mental health” or “struggles with mental health” it is highly likely and common that feelings such as shame, embarrassment, fear of being labeled, and intense distress are likely to follow. Our Western society has typically viewed vulnerability and verbalizing normal painful feelings and internal experiences as weak and that one should know how to put oneself back together. We have all heard different phrases from people when we struggle such as: “just move on, get over it, get it together, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, move forward, the answer is (fill in the blank).” Such phrases, while they can be well-intended, typically perpetuate masking the reality of the internal pain one may be experiencing. Sadly, it can also lead one to feel even more alone and adhere to the societal, family, or internal rule to keep such painful internal experiences to themselves. This phenomenon in our society creates even more barriers to a person seeking any form of support or treatment for mental health challenges. As a result of the stigma that is strongly attached to mental health challenges, not only do individuals have to deal with the stress associated with their mental health concern, they also have to face the high amounts of stress and stigma that are attached to seeking help or support. Unsurprisingly, most people avoid this type of stress.
According to Mental Health America (MHA), in 2022, more than half of adults who have experienced mental health challenges did not receive any form of treatment, a total of over 27 million people. When compared to a 2001 study by the World Health Organization stating that 1 in 4 people will struggle with some sort of mental health challenge at some point in their lives, it is clear that many people are struggling and not many people are seeking out help. The irony is both of these studies show mental health challenges are very real and present while most avoid any type of service, support, or formal treatment for such concerns. In 2019, according to the same study mentioned above by MHA, nearly 50 million American adults experienced challenges with mental health during that year. As the COVID-19 pandemic began in 2020, rates of anxiety and depression only continued to increase according to a WHO study. Alongside all of this being noted in this blog, it can be reassuring to know these studies tell us this: mental health struggles are normal for most everyone, and so is the hesitancy to reach out for help. Many, if not all people, at some point in their lives can or will experience a time with higher amounts of suffering, painful feelings, grief, depression, anxiety, panic, reactions associated with past experiences or trauma, etc. Furthermore, it is of my opinion that the societal expectation to not talk or allow space to struggle with these painful experiences (and furthermore seek out help), only continues to perpetuate cycles of distress and pain. Moreover, this cycle has been vastly counterintuitive to helping people move toward lives enriched with purpose, wellness, and meaning. In the closing of my first post, it is my hope to simply spread this message: human suffering and challenges with mental health at some point in life are normal; the idea of seeking help is commonly stigmatized; seeking and engaging with help can be incredibly beneficial and has shown to help. |
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AuthorCorbin Henningsen, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist in the Oklahoma City and Edmond, OK areas. He enjoys helping people who struggle with depression, anxiety, and traumatic memories. He has worked as a therapist since 2016 and has operated a robust and growing private practice since 2020. He loves to help his clients through a down-to-earth approach that helps them make sense of their internal pain while taking reasonable steps toward values, meaning, and purpose. Archives
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